Sometimes, we do not understand the implication of being in love, the power of loving and being loved, or the responsibility of being in love.
We live our lives everyday desiring to be happy, pursuing after a little vanity from time to time, looking for a little naughtiness or risk that will add that value of momentary pleasure which gives you the feeling that you can still do what you like sometimes. We get so engrossed in our ambition that nothing matters till we achieve the latest goal… And there is always a goal
Know this... When you are in a relationship, your joy must proceed out of the fact that you give joy to that person to whom you have surrendered your heart and passion - when you are sick, they are dying; when you are unhappy, they are sad; when you weep, they grieve; when you are unsettled, they are destabilized. In the midst of the heartache that your mood or situation causes them, they still desire to, and actually do stay strong for you. Why then will you not consider the impact your actions will have on them before you act?
We can be so loving, and yet so unloving... Anytime we do not consider what our actions are capable of doing to the ones we love (the same ones who love us back), we abuse the emotions of our loved ones, and expose them to avoidable pain.
Beware the voice of the unreasonable; be careful what you eat or drink; be careful how you drive... Drive safely. Don't run your body like a machine… It's still a body that needs rest no matter how strong you think you are. Be careful how you relate with people (whether in public or private life)… The path of the flirtatious is easy to thrive in, but it is a total disrespect of the one who loves you, the one who you love. Be careful what you give up, and be careful what you hold on to...
Your joy is love's joy. Always remember this.
Blessings and more