Read In Another Language

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Don't Expect Love To Forgive You On Your Terms...




To feel frustrated about love not accepting your apology might be a sign that you are selfish


When you offend love, forgiveness might not be automatic merely because you have said sorry. And when forgiveness is given, it might not necessarily mean that love has healed from the pain caused by the offense. You must give love time to heal... You must be courageous enough to wait and see your seed of apology develop into an oasis of forgiveness and love.

To "wait and see" doesn't mean to sit idle waiting for a reaction merely because you said "I am sorry" once or twice... Get back into the path. Restore things to what they used to be - do what you know you are meant to do. Don't expect anything from the one you offended. Let them heal at their own pace, and if they let you, help them heal at a faster pace... But you musn't set time-lines for them.


Blessings and more, to you and yours

SHALOM

4 comments:

  1. This is rightly right on point...noo yawa.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Yes I totally agree,
    the 'sorry' has to be real and proved through action, otherwise it is just a word.

    ReplyDelete