Sometimes,
we do not understand the implication of being in love, the power of loving and
being loved, or the responsibility of being in love.
We
live our lives everyday desiring to be happy, pursuing after a little vanity
from time to time, looking for a little naughtiness or risk that will add that
value of momentary pleasure which gives you the feeling that you can still do
what you like sometimes. We get so engrossed in our ambition that nothing
matters till we achieve the latest goal… And there is always a goal
Know
this... When you are in a relationship, your joy must proceed out of the fact
that you give joy to that person to whom you have surrendered your heart and
passion - when you are sick, they are dying; when you are unhappy, they are
sad; when you weep, they grieve; when you are unsettled, they are destabilized.
In the midst of the heartache that your mood or situation causes them, they
still desire to, and actually do stay strong for you. Why then will you not
consider the impact your actions will have on them before you act?
We
can be so loving, and yet so unloving... Anytime we do not consider what our
actions are capable of doing to the ones we love (the same ones who love us
back), we abuse the emotions of our loved ones, and expose them to avoidable
pain.
Beware
the voice of the unreasonable; be careful what you eat or drink; be careful how
you drive... Drive safely. Don't run your body like a machine… It's still a
body that needs rest no matter how strong you think you are. Be careful how you
relate with people (whether in public or private life)… The path of the
flirtatious is easy to thrive in, but it is a total disrespect of the one who
loves you, the one who you love. Be careful what you give up, and be careful
what you hold on to...
Your
joy is love's joy. Always remember this.
Blessings
and more
SHALOM
