Warmest African greetings to every one who believes that fighting to keep love alive is a good fight. I am so glad about the feedbacks I am getting from the people who got copies of the books. It's wonderful to receive the comments you have sent to me, and I am so thankful that the books are adding value to your lives and relationships.
I promised that there will be a sequel to the difference between a girl and a woman. It is right here now, before you. Enjoy, learn and share:
A BOY keeps a password on his
cell phone while a MAN is confident enough to say "baby can u answer that
for me"!! A BOY runs the streets & chill with his friends while a MAN
is enjoying time with his woman planning ahead for their future! A BOY
complains about spending too much time with his woman, a MAN plans vacations
& getaways because he is wise enough to notice tomorrow must be planned
for!
A MAN takes responsibility for
the challenges in his relationship, A BOY runs away from reasonability once the
challenges ensue… A BOY says “Whose baby is that?!” A MAN says let’s go see
your parents. A BOY says “Am not ready for this pregnancy now, A MAN says
“don’t worry dear, we’ll get through this together”...
A BOY says “baby let’s go
clubbing” A MAN says “baby let’s go to church”. What a BOY considers as risks, a
MAN considers as priority…A MAN pays attention to the needs
of his woman, A BOY is selfish and wants to be the one the sacrifice is made
for.
A MAN goes into a relationship
because he is ready; A BOY goes into a relationship because he feels he is old
enough.
A BOY runs from the consequences
of the choices he makes, A MAN sticks with his choice irrespective of the
consequences that proceed out of it.
BOYs abuse their spouses and use
money as a weapon of control, MEN love their spouses and stay true to their
commitment, no matter the challenges they encounter in the relationship. BOYs are covenant breakers; MEN
are covenant keepers.
A BOY thinks that the quality of
respect he enjoys from his spouse is based on how green or otherwise his bank
account is and will always loose his confidence when he is broke; A MAN knows
and is confident of the fact that money is not everything and so is neither
intimidated by it nor is he going to loose his confidence merely because he is
broke.
A BOY is always keen to prove a
point about himself and what he is capable of doing, A MAN is only keen about
proving himself. A BOY feels that he should only love and not accept to be
loved, because he believes that allowing himself to be loved is a sign of
weakness; A MAN allows himself to be loved as much as he loves because that
makes him complete and not weak…
My question is, are you a BOY or
a MAN? And, are you in a relationship with a BOY or a MAN?
Blessings and more, to you and yours.
SHALOM
