Even Your Heart Is Worth Guarding Too...

Love will expect great things from and for you... But love will never wish you were someone else. 

When people are healing from a broken heart, it is not the best time to get them involved in a relationship, especially when they are wishing their relationship did not break. The more they wish their relationship didn't break, the more dissatisfied they will be with you and the more they would wish you were someone else (most likely the person they broke up with). You will never measure up… You will never be good enough.

Worst of all, anyone going through this situation cannot possibly be in a relationship with you, but is using you as a cushion, and anyone who uses you as a cushion will leave you when the pain is gone or when they are strong enough to move on, and might even go back to the very person who hurt them... the same hurt you helped them get over.

This could be the reason for the stress you are going through in that relationship. You two should talk... And be as sincere and open with your questions, as you are with your answers. Please don’t accuse yourselves, because no one can do better than the information he/she has. Now that you know, deal with the situation. Best wishes to you two…

Blessings and more, to you and yours.

SHALOM