Pornography seems to have become one of the recommendations made to couples in order to help them enhance (or improve) their sexual relationship.
Adventurous and rewarding as it may sound, what most counselors and people who recommend pornography to couples do not know (or might not know) and so might never tell you, is that after that moment when the pornography (whether print or electronic) excites you and gets you in the mood, the images do not go away – they stay in your head.
And believe me (No! Ask your spouse and hope that he/she doesn't lie for fear of hurting you…), when the images come back, it is not you that your spouse sees or thinks about, but the people, whether real or imaginary, who make up that pornographic material.
To be continued...
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SHALOM
IMO,if pornography is advised to spice up your relationship,it means it's the last resort.Whether the image remains or not,it doesn't matter as far as it doesn't ruin your relationship or change your feelings towards your partner.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your very honest comment... The part 2 of this post shares a few lines on the angle you've raised. Will alert you once it's published. Thanks again... U d man!!!
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