Until we realise that when out of anger, we refuse to engage in the usual traditions which give our relationship the basis for its existence, like refusing to eat the food she serves you, refusing to accept money or a gift from him; refusing to share that beautiful moment together no matter how in-tune you are with your feelings and irrespective of how badly u know u need him/her... We are actually shortchanging ourselves by denying ourselves the opportunity to be loved.
People feel that giving up on the opportunity to be loved is an ace that proves to their spouses that they are not weak people who will fall for anything (as to them witholding the love they show will give their spouses something to miss), without understanding that every opportunity to be loved, is an occasion to feel re-assured about love, and be reminded of its power... the reason why holding on is easy.
Don't let anger steal from you the most glorious platform which helps you reconnect to the one who loves you. Loving is a beautiful thing, but being loved is bliss. Think about it.
Blessings and more, to you and yours.
SHALOM
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